Parent Reflections: Sex & Relationship Education

This post was written 30 May 2018 but didn’t get published till now (December 2020).

Curiosity is a quality that leads to the discovery of new things. And personal experience is a most memorable teacher. Depending on personal choice (and often external influences) curiosity can either lead to positive growth towards love or can take us in the opposite direction – away from love. As a parent there are many opportunities to be a positive influence in a child’s/children’s life and simultaneously learn about love or our lack of it, as children ask questions and seek answers.

In our family, when the children’s curiosity naturally brought them to ask about sex I saw an opportunity and the potential for a truthful discussion about loving relationships and a variety of other topics, including: love, soulmates, soulmate romantic relationships, morality, sexuality, emotional connection, love and respecting their bodies and the nuts and bolts of the sex act itself (taking into account the children’s desire to know and my understanding of those subjects at the time).

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Update: Experiment Self-Responsibility, January to February 2019

In the introductory post to ‘experiment self-responsibility I introduced readers to a family experiment I have begun.

To read the introductory post press this link.

In brief there are some issues in our family that were not changing and I made the decision to take action to change them. This is because in our family conversations and talking makes no change, it is only action that anyone responds to.

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Reflections: Childbirth

Reflections on the birthing process

In my experience birth is a natural process that ‘just happens’ if you let it. When I say ‘just happens’ the inbuilt intelligence (instinct) in my body took over during the birthing process and did what it was designed to do, have a baby. This was the same with pregnancy, I had sex and then a whole lot of amazing processes happened that allowed a baby human’s physical body to grow and develop inside my body for 9 months.

God did the designing and creating and I experienced His incredible handiwork and still do not understand exactly how everything was created, developed and happened.

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Experiment: Operation Self-Responsibility

The children are moving out of the house and into their first homes (a tent set up) tomorrow. Each child has purchased a tent setup that will be their home until they go through an attitude shift (an emotional change) in regards to caring for the shared environment and love of others (in basic terms clean and care for their personal and shared living environment and not expect others (mum in this case) to do everything for them, and to see how their choices and actions are causing unloving situations in their lives).

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Having Children Did Not Make Me a Real Woman

Before I had children I had the false belief that having children would make me a ‘real woman’.
I thought being a mum was my only role, purpose and destiny in life. I thought that once I was married and had children my purpose as a woman would be fulfilled and life would be perfect like in a hallmark movie. I believed that somehow having children would magically fix everything in my life and make me feel great.

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Developing Relationships: Family Meetings/Debriefs

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Developing relationships

In December 2017 I realised that I wasn’t communicating with the children and I wasn’t taking the time to get to know them or giving them the opportunity to express how they were really feeling or what they were thinking. I also noticed a gap in their communication skills and interpersonal interaction. Partly this is due to the self-absorbed-ness we (the parents) have encouraged in them and part of it is due to their lack of education in how to actually interact with other people.

I felt it was important to begin a process of correcting the lack of education from myself and over the past 5 months we have began to have what I call “family meetings” or “debriefs”. Continue reading

God’s Way of Education

Reblogged from God’s Way Ltd website

Hi and Welcome to God’s Way of Education. For more information visit God’s Way website at godsway.net

God’s Way website is the place to go if you are interested in Education and Learning about Love from God’s Perspective, particularly in regards to ‘parents’*, children, teaching & education systems.

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If you are interested to know more, these are the ways to get in touch:

  1. Contact Eloisa Or Tristan at: education@godsway.net

So who are ‘we’?

Presently the collaborators include:

Tristan Miller

Eloisa & Peter Lytton-Hitchins

Izabella, Charlie & Archie Lytton-Hitchins

Mentors: Jesus & Mary Magdalene

We would like to welcome Tristan as a contributor to the blog/website and let you know that he will be contributing posts from time to time here to do with his passions and desires and the projects we are collaborating on. We hope you enjoy getting to know him!

You’ll be hearing more from Tris personally soon.

We look forward to this project expanding and collaborating with more people who are passionate and desirous to be involved in the future.

What is God’s Way of Education all about?

We feel that God’s Way of Education is about how we can grow a personal relationship with God and learn directly from God about everything (it makes sense to connect to the highest source of all knowledge).

We desire to learn God’s Way of educating and replicating an education system, for adults & children, based on Principle’s of God’s truth that can be shared with the world. We would like take create programs for families and schools that currently exist, as well as implementing them in future schools & education systems (including eventually universities & higher education). It is a system based on Love (God’s version), learning the Truth about Natural Love (Humans can develop on their own) & Divine Love (God’s Love).

As you can read we have big aspirations, smile.

We have heaps to learn about how God does things rather than the world’s way. We are learning and growing ourselves so this project will reflect that and we are sure there will be many discoveries and changes as we discover more about Love & God’s Truth.

About this page, including an introduction to some of our Ideas, Aspirations & intentions:

We will be posting information, ideas, experiments and findings on this page.

This page will be all about what we learn about how God educates us, how education takes place in the spirit world, Education itself, education of parents, children, teachers, educators, adults, and probably a whole heap more stuff that we discover or are interested in about education too.

We will be setting up a website in the future, but presently that requires us educating ourselves further in how to do that and in gathering and documenting various information and data to share with you in regards to Parents, children, education in relation to Principle’s of God’s Truth.

Due to this having never been done on Earth before there are various trial and error aspects we are encountering and we have so much to learn. It could be some months before information is shared publicly, but when we get the time and have exciting experiences and findings we sure will be sharing.

Presently we are in experiencing and experimenting mode and that takes time and efforts on our part, and due to ‘doing’ we don’t always have the time to write a blog or website entry about it. Also we don’t want to share things that are insincere and so we need to experiment and experience them for ourselves so we know for sure that what we are talking about is true and works and it not just being a ‘good idea’.

We will share our ideas from time to time and when we do, we hope to follow up with evidence, experiences and ways that you can implement the same principles to create positive change in your lives if you so desire.

We will always state if we do not know something, when it is an experiment or a trial and when we have made a discovery that we are certain in our hearts about. These last experiences (the ones we feel God’s Truth about) I feel will be able to be replicated and so we will share the principles and process so others can try it too.

From the experiences that each of us have had over the last years we know that consistency is essential & if parents/guardians of children educate themselves and release emotionally any beliefs/belief systems, feelings, emotions, desires, expectations, demands etc out of harmony with love from God’s perspective this has a hugely positive impact on the child/ren in their care.

We have experienced that the greatest impact on a child’s learning comes from the emotional injuries (negative impact) or lack of them (positive impact) in the environment a child grows up in. So we believe if we as the parents/guardians, teachers, educators and adults can release emotionally the issues that impact negatively on themselves & others including a child then the child has the opportunity to more easily release the inherited injuries and emotions and be free of them which we hypothesize will have a huge impact on them in all kinds of positive ways.

We are excited about experimenting and documenting this process so that there will be information and studies that people can refer to in the future to show that this is possible, how to actually do it, step by step and where the experiences, ideas, mistakes and various other aspects of the learning that takes place is shared and documented.

We hope you enjoy what is shared here and it provides you at the very least with something to ponder and potentially try out for yourself if you so desire.

If you are interested and experimenting personally with Principle’s of God’s Truth, particularly in the education sector and with children, we encourage you to scientifically document the process including what you do, how you do it and the changes that occur over time. We’d love to hear your experiences, you can contact us through the previously mentioned methods at the top of this post.

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Back Ground to ‘how it all came about’:

In 2014 Jesus & Mary** were visiting Peter and I in Kentucky, NSW. They mentioned that Tristan was very interested in learning & sharing about how God Educates us. They suggested that Tristan might be interested in catching up and discussing ideas with us as we both had similar desires.

So in November 2014 Tristan came to visit us in Kentucky, NSW.

We got SUPER excited, particularly when discussing about discovering how God educates us and how education takes place in the spirit world. We are excited about how we can learn from God personally, share what we learn and potentially replicate how God educates us in all school & education systems on Earth. We would like to set up desire based education centres where Love based education becomes reality.

Over the past few years Pete and I had decided to make some changes in our lives. We want to get to a point that we can share God’s Truth that we have experienced with the world as our full time business. In December 2015 we moved to Tingoora, Queensland, Australia as there are a number of people we desire to collaborate with and learn from in the area.

Jesus spoke to us about an idea he had had about how we all might really jump into our Education desire. It was a really great idea and I am excited to report we are doing it.

Peter and I have some funds from selling the farm which have enabled us to currently donate enough funds and a house to use for Tristan so he can collaborate with us & pursue this passion full time.

Our aim over the next while is to each work through our money injuries so that we can attract enough funds to abundantly cover our passions and desires and enough funds to cover our day to day living expenses. The projects that we are planning on doing involve attracting funds before they can be created.

We have set up a time table were the children remain in state school for their academic learning and go to ‘Tristan’s School’ a couple of days a week to learn about Principle’s of God’s truth. The focus being on Lessons of Love for us (adults) & the children.

We began the first intensive on June the 3rd, 2016 and have continued each week since then. The kids are excited about some aspects and hugely challenged by others – particularly their addictions being challenged. This is a perfect reflection of where we -parents – are at (exactly the same feelings), which is the beauty of the process. Children reflect their environment particularly parents PERFECTLY! God has made a truly awesome process which encourages us to learn to Love, and learn all about Love.

This creates lots of opportunities and we have quite a few reasons for doing this. For example: Each Lesson of Love will become part of the future curriculum for a school we would like to set up. We are all trailing and testing how to implement the Lessons of Love in the best ways possible and learning love lessons ourselves along the way.

It is an opportunity to work on issues between adults and children and document the results of how the emotions of parents affect children, emotionally, physically, spiritually etc. This will aid us in the future to share with other parents the Lessons in Love that we learn and set up a parenting program and education opportunity for adults that will run along side the kids education program. We feel that it is imperative for parents to grow an aspiration to Love if they truly want to change, truly desire to Love children & potentially be involved with the future school.

We are audio recording everything we do presently and will be video recording as much as possible in the coming months, along with written information. We hope to document many things, including how parent’s releasing their personal addictions, demands, expectations and unloving emotions (sin) assist children in a positive manner and creates the quickest behavioural changes & enables unencumbered learning. We have had some experiences with this already and know that positive change is possible, we now need to document it properly.

There are a lot of variables, but we feel if we can keep the long term goals in mind and keep working through the issues and resistances that keep us from doing so, this is going to be a super awesome venture for all involved!

Gratitude:

To God for creating us, for creating the ultimate education system there is, for the most incredible gifts & designing awesome playgrounds for learning! Among every other super cool thing God does which we have yet to discover. There is just so much to thank God about.

We would like to thank Tristan for his passion and enthusiasm for this project and his desire to collaborate with us in order to begin putting this desire into action.

We would also like to thank Jesus & Mary Magdalene who have given and give us regular time in mentoring us about all kinds of things including this desire.

Finally we would like to Thank our spirit friends for all their help & guidance regarding this project and our lives in general!

You’ll be hearing more from us soon!

Love Eloisa & Peter

* Please take into consideration that God is our true parent and that our earthly parents are our brothers and sisters. If we truly felt this in our hearts we would treat children very differently than we currently do.

** When Jesus & Mary share about the spirit world and how God does things it is so inspiring and so amazing. Some things are so super cool that we stay excited for ages just chatting about them!

‘At Our House’ – A Story about Loving Restriction

20170527 Note to Reader:

My friend Mary gave me some feedback on some issues with this story not being completely truthful. I want to correct this before sharing it.

Because I want the story to be a truthful representation of what happened and our family dynamic at the time I have temporarily removed the links to this story as there are some modifications I need to make.

It is very important to me that it accurately reflect Parents responsibility in what happens in a house hold. For example how Parents unhealed emotional injuries are reflected by children and it is the parents unhealed emotions that attract spirit influence. In the story I was blaming spirits rather than portraying how the influence happens.

There were some fundamental errors in what I wrote mainly in that it is not clear enough that personal responsibility and working emotionally through everything out of harmony with love within yourself (the parent) is what changes the family dynamic the most.

The book was suggesting that spirits are entirely responsible for children making mischief, this is not true or accurate.

There is a combination of factors that create the dynamic. In our house the reason that the children acted out as they did and the spirit influence was so great was due to a combination of fears Pete and I had (some we still have) that we were refusing to feel about and the law of attraction at work to help us to work through these.

As I have emotionally worked through some personal issues things have improved in our home. The improvement is due to me (the adult) emotionally releasing some false beliefs, being truthful and honest and beginning a process of feeling how I really feel. I then choose to uphold love more and it is my choices becoming more in harmony with love that are making the difference.

It was due to me being told the truth by Jesus & Mary, my choice to be truthful about my soul condition to myself and experiment with God’s truth that caused things to begin to change.

Our personal choices and taking personal responsibility are paramount in what happens in our life! I want this story to reflect that and currently it doesn’t, so I am editing it.

Love

Eloisa



I wrote a children’s book a couple of years ago (2015) and am sharing it as a pdf (link to come).

It is titled:

At Our House – A Story about Loving Restriction

I have done it as a pdf so you can print it and make it into a book if you want to. If you print it out on heavier duty paper, double sided with the short edge binding option (landscape) it ought to print out neatly and be able to be bound or stapled on the left hand edge.

I have also attached some brief notes to parents about loving restriction & Spirit Influence which can be found in the second pdf

At Our House’ Story, link below (the download size is 74MB). This is the one to print if you are going to make it into a book:

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A Lower resolution version for online viewing & emailing (download size  MB) link below:

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Note to Parents & Caregivers about the story,  (download size 34KB) link below:

2014_childrens_story_notes_to_parentscaregivers from Eloisa

You are welcome to share this story with your friends. This book may be reproduced, copied and distributed.

I hope you & the children who read or listen to this story enjoy it.

Love

Eloisa


I have added some Links below to Divine Truth Information if you are interested in finding out more

YouTube Channel

Divine Truth FAQ’s

Divine Truth Clips

If you type in the subject you are interested in in the search menu (little magnify glass symbol) on the YouTube channel you will find a lot of information on a variety of subject matter.

God, God’s Truth & God’s Love

Growing Personal Relationship with God

Spirit Influence

Parenting

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Illustration from ‘At Our House’, by Eloisa