What I Wish I’d Known about Sex years ago…

God’s Truth about sex and sexuality* and that it was taught at school and at home

God made everyone a perfect mate, the other half of you (For more specific info check out Divinetruth.com go to the youtube channel and search Soulmates) This means there is only one person in the world for you, one partner, one mate, one person to have sex with.


God made everyone with an inbuilt pleasure system so He must have intented us to use it and enjoy ourselves


Love is an essential part of sex. 

I suspect sex without love was not intended.


The more you become and express your real self as God made you, the more your soulmate is attracted to you.

Loving someone is all about opening your heart. I haven’t experienced sex with an open heart yet but I hear its amazing.

Sexuality is a gift.

Sexuality and sexual expression are part of us and we need to explore, discover and become educated about it.

I have a choice to give the gift of my sexuality. If others demand, expect, or take it against my will it is wrong. If they make me ‘bad’ or shame me for not doing what they demand they are even more wrong on so many levels (yes, i have some personal hurt to feel about this one).

Sex is emotional. 

Sex and love go together. seperating love from sex causes heartache. Sex without love is unfulfilling and creates emotional pain.

Sex is an expression of Love. If you don’t love the person you are going to have sex with(or are having sex with), or they dont love you don’t have sex. 

Work out issues of love emotionally before having sex.

Love, including being truthful, transparent, open and honest brings people closer emotionally.

Masturbation also known as self sex is fun and enjoyable for boys and girls. Try it in a safe private space and find out for yourself. Explore your own body discover how it works, how it feels, what part is what. Experiment with what you personally enjoy so when you meet your soulmate you can share and show and then experiment together.

Sex can be fun and at times funny

Scientifically investigate. know your own atonomy how it works and functions.

I recently discovered that my vagina has many parts I didn’t know the names of.

Men and women orgasm. It is very enjoyable to do so.

Men and women can ejaculate. It’s a really enjoyable sensation. You can learn how through self sex.

It would have been benefital to know and understand how to orgasm, how to ejuclate and that it was normal, possible and existed.

That talking about sex helps to learn about it. 

Speaking plainly about sex and calling sexual organs by their scientific names is essential to avoid confusion.

People had spoken plainly, openly and clearly about sex.  

If someone is only interested in you for sex this is not love and they don’t really like you.

That I had been shown factual, truthful, love based informatiom about sex from positive credible sources. And been given information on how to find this for myself, if I so desired.

Sex is not like in the movies. Real sex is not like porn sex. And sexual violence is not okay.

Things like farting, fanny farting ( when air comes out of your vagina) happen during sex. Sometimes sex is awkward. And thats okay.

That feelings, emotions had been encouraged and emotional sex had been discussed.

More may be added in future…

Note:

I understand many of us have a heap of emotions around sexuality, sex and sexual expression to work through and release for us to be truly open hearted.

I have found positive, open conversations about sex to be enjoyable and educational. 

I would have loved to have open, honest, emotionally expressive conversations about sex with people who were curious like me when I was discovering my sexuality, where feelings were encouraged, truth was spoken and explored and shame was felt rather than projected.

So this post is beginning a positive conversation in that direction.

All the best in explorng sexuality!

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* Ask God and God can let you know through feelings.

For more information on How to Connect to God, how to receive God’s Love and Truth and information on Truth about soulmates and sexuality visit the Divinetruth.com YouTube channel and search for soulmates, sexuality, partner relationships, Recievibg God’s Love, God’s truth or any other subject you are interested in.

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Books i found educational reading about orgasm (I do not agree or endorse  everything in them),

**I Love Female Ogasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide, by Dorian Solot & Marshall Miller

** Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot by Deborah Sundahl

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